I have another post that is still open, but I started this new post because I need guidance on how I should respond to my H after six months of total silence.
Below is his email to me with the specifics removed:
Hi... I am back from XXXXXXX and my dad as you know is on his last breaths. I am planning to go next week end if I can. Can you help setting up the trip? Either thru XXXXXXX or other ways. Thanks.
So my H wants me to allow him to use a travel benefit that I receive because of the job I am currently in. Wow he has some b@&&$. No indication that he has not talked to me in 6 months, he has not asked how I am doing, he has not said ANYTHING to me at all! How do I respond?
I want to help him because if I do not, he will just purchase a ticket that will end up costing us more money anyway. I want him to see his dad and I don't want to make it hard right now because his dad is dying. I'm just not sure how I should respond without him thinking that I am a total pushover.
