I do not in any way shape or form feel you were being preachy! I think it's an honest question. Monday thru Friday it's me. Saturday and Sunday mornings my H takes care of him for two hours each day. Then he loses himself to the phone and it's hit or miss in his care of our S.
Most of my GAL time is in the evenings after my S goes to sleep. I did tell him that I needed shopping time today, so we went shopping. Actually my son stayed in his car seat with dad in the driver's seat, while I went shopping. Of course this made me feel rushed, but at least I got the chance. At the next store, my H bailed and went to get a hair cut.
I do have a hard time just walking away from my S in the house to do my own thing. Maybe that should be one of my goals this week?
Happy Father's Day btw! Your sons are lucky to have you as a role model!
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M 46 / H 43 T 24/M 18 S 4 11/6/2014 ILYBNILWY 1/16/2015 Living in separate bedroom 1/8/2016 H moved out