Hi OD. For me it was too soon. My EXW is still denying OM is romantic and she is obviously depressed and a bit lost. When I went fr date the lady was pretty, intelligent and good company but I did feel like I was cheating and it just wasn't me. I like to flirt and have fun with some of the ladies on here but it's all done with the knowledge that we can all choose not to answer. After date the lady has contacted me a few times but I didn't pursue.
My point is that it's all a very personal thing For me you are questioning the R which is healthy and the right thing to do. Your W is gone for now and who knows how long for. OD was in a real bad place a few weeks back and I would encourge you to enjoy life and see what it brings while holding back until you are completly ready to move forward 100%
