First post. Desperate for advice.

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I'm assuming your question wasn't "do you want me to make you some eggs?"

I'm guessing it had to do with her calls or texts or clothes or whereabouts.

You can keep asking these questions and keep having these arguments or you can stop. There is NOTHING to be gained from it. Don't just say you want to change or that you Have changed. CHANGE.

Yes it was clothes and whereabouts. Response was angry, defensive, I made an offhand comment and then she was adamant to know "what I had". After I revealed my concern she flipped and got very angry. I have to stay away from the subject 100% you are so right. I do want to change. I do. I do. I do.

How do you know when they are done? Is it when you see real remorse and openness about all these things?