I'm no expert, but my XW ALWAYS thought I was judging her about something. It was like a fear of hers. She ALWAYS thought she was being judged by me, my family or coworkers.
She never thought she was good enough, pretty enough, smart enough....sad really.
Tad
Currently: M 56 XW 57 Sons 38,33,31,29
The Sitch: Married 26 years EA w/ OM 9/10 Bomb 10/10 (5 weeks after 25th anniversary) Sep 12/10 She wants D 1/11 W files 5/11 D final 10/11 XW marries OM 6/13
