She's doing exactly what my wife did back in 2008, trying to keep you on the hook, keep the Defacto and the OM plate spinning all at the same time.

Listen to the likes of Sandi. I'm still married 7 years later but really poor at "advising". This is going to take a lot more time yet Defacto.

GH31

Me: 46
W: 46
T: 23
M: 20
DS12
DD11
DS5

W left: 01/28/08
Discovered OM: 02/26/08
W back for 9 days: 04/08
W returned 05/21/08
EA/PA - 01/08-07/09
W's MLC 2008-2014 (realised this much later)