I sense there is a big underlying issue here, a huge elephant, to be eaten one bite at a time.
Let me be H for a moment:
I turn up at my old home whenever I chose I get fed, watered, I can even sleep, watch TV Magnificent breakfasts, I miss those My wife is looking good these days I live with two old ladies and cats and dogs which make me itch I have a gf I am passionate about but who is far away I text my xW because I am lonely I involve myself in her life when I chose Oh yes, it's her birthday about now sometime
My XW is great, she doesn't mind very much and lets me do as I please
She engages with my texts and calls She lets me keep my stuff at her place She packs She interacts and is friendly
All good then?
Pink, detach, let go, let H look after H. You can chose to let H take the full consequences of his life choice. Sweet P, you need your space.
Hugs
V
Last edited by Vanilla; 06/21/1506:28 AM.
Freedom is just another word for nothing left to loose. V 64, WAW