"Where are s9's shoes, where is his brace, where is his XX etc...??? There was only 1 shoe in the bag etc... and when will I bring them over." She had asked that I pack and extra pair of shoes, which I did and his XX which I did.
I was at the movies and didn't get the text until several hours later. I texted and asked for our s9 to call me and I asked him what was up? He asked where his XX was. I said "Silly, it's in your bag, I told him exactly where in the bag his XX is. I had put it in his bag and safety pinned it inside the bag so it would not get lost.
W then calls and wants to know why I won't call her, beratng me for not packing the bag "correctly" etc... and why I won't talk to her. I said I told S9 where hs stuff was, just check the bag. She starts laughing at me and not in a kind kidding way but in a "you are so stupid and menacing way. I said I will talk to you later when we can discuss this more productively. Goodnight.
W then texts me back "Our children are not intermediators for us, call me. I view this as a theat that if I don't call her back then I am the problem and will "pay" for this transgression.
So at this point, I don't know what to do. I won't pick up the bait, call her and get into an argument with her. Especially since she yelled at me this morning.
I can't win. I was out GALing , STFU and generally just being polite but distant. Her reactions to me are I am always wrong, she berates everything I do, (pack, don't pack, plan, don't plan etc...)
It is so much easier with her out of my life, so much more peaceful. I wish she should would LEAVE ME ALONE at this point. Her week with kids, my week with kids. How hard can that be? Seriously, that is all I want now. She did a great job with our spreadsheet for whose week it is, we are flexible when work dictates a change, and that's it. That's all it is. None of ths is my choice, but I am weary of her bully tactics and maniulation and disrespect. Just go away and live your life. I am not stopping you.
As for GAL, I had a great massage, got some chakras cleaned today, met a friend for a movie and we went shopping and tomorrow a friend is coming over for dinner and some TV time. Sounds good to me.
