Hi TLEE,

Re the ring thing, I guess it's our values against theirs. I would say it's plain old immature. But maybe just a different way of seeing M. One that I will not respect, but good for thdm if they find someone who cherishes it equally as little. I thought I was hearing things when my H said 'break up with you' during course of M like we were just dating. No one deserves to be jerked back and forth!

I know what you mean about the board...

Careful about making decisions with chance to see WAW as a pro. She should not be a factor anymore. Let her feel the void please! Let her grow up if she chooses. I just see so much heartache in the future as she keeps stringing you along on her emotional tidal waves.

Thinking if you, TLEE. Wishing you freedom and peace to devote 100% your energies and thoughts to your new beginning!


Mid 30's
Psych-abusive M with violent tantrums from XH
D 9/15; NC forever on

You can't DR your way out of abuse.