Hey guys, thanks. No arguments tonight... I just said at one point, "So I have to assume your 'girlfriend' is out of town tonight." She flashes this really weird new smile that she only smiles in reference to comments about the OW. "Yes," she said, softly.
And where was this? In the car! I had to pick my son up from work, and it was a gorgeous evening here, perfect night to ride in the convertible. I told her I was going to get him, and she jumped up and said, "I'll come with you."
My first instinct was to say, "No, thank you." But I decided that since we weren't fighting, there wouldn't be much harm. Other than that little exchange, all was fine. Once we got back, I went out on the porch to enjoy some wine with the thunderstorm that cropped up, and she stayed inside to keep texting the OW. I'm inside now and, again, so strange to have so many things be so different in such a short period of time.
I'm sure tomorrow night will be back to the new normal, where she stays out till midnight. I wish she'd just go to bed already. I really am not ready to go to bed myself.
Me: 46 Her: 41 M: 5.5 yrs / S: 20, 18 3/26 W and I meet OW BD: 5/2/2015, she takes off ring W goes to stay with OW 6/26 NC: 9/5 Both moved out: 10/16 I take off my ring and feel... healed: 10/19