Hi V!

Watched the video. Another good one to lookup is "Say Goodbye to Crazy". The authors have youtube videos that are hilarious.

Today was pretty good. Picked up S7 from the STBXW at 12:00. We went to Toy-R-Us for the free Legos. Then watched the movie. Came home, hung out with the neighbors and they they're playing the Lego Jurassic Park game I got them this afternoon. They're both saying they had a great time. laugh

On the STBXW front, S7 told her I was adopting FS9. She started texting me this morning about S7. That I should be more firm with him and I'm spoiling him. I explained that he's allowed to express his emotions, but it doesn't change the fact he'll have to visit her.

She then proceeded to tell me that she and S7 have a deal. That she'll give up her evenings during the week (Tues/Thurs) for the summer with him, but will still have him every other weekend for 2 nights. That he can't throw anymore tantrums. She even bought doughnuts for all of us when I'd pick up S7 (odd behavior). She even told me that she was really happy... Went out of her way to state she was being sincere, that I was adopting FS9.

The lawyer has been predicting for over a month that she would give up her time during the week. FS9 gave her the excuse. Didn't take as long as expected.

If it was me, there's no way I'd give up any time with my son. It's baffling to me.

Other thing she did tonight... (my interpretation is she's trying to convince herself) is a Facebook post. How "happiness is being single" Then uses "Mayberry" as the comparison. That the only one who was married was Otis, the town drunk. What a dark perspective.

Last edited by Sherman333; 06/21/15 12:16 AM.

Me: 45 W43
S7, Foster S9 (Planning to adopt post divorce)
D mentioned Feb 2015, Wife served 3/24/2015. She moved out 4/15/2015.