Right now i'd like to think about the here and now and not talk about the future. There is only one alternative to getting a D and that is to not get a D.
If somewhere at the back of your mind you are having second thoughts then we should talk before this goes too far.
I think this could make her dig her heels in and deny it, even if she has it.
If on the other hand you want to continue down this path where there are no winners, only losers then I have far too many important things going on in my life to waste any more energy on these types of conversations.
This to me is off-putting. It sounds a little hostile and condescending.
What is your idea? What would you like to see happen?
I still think you can use some of the points I wrote, especially the last two - because if you think it's too late, there wasn't any point in bringing this up to begin with, right?
M 16 yrs, WH62, P54 3 adult blended kids EA 11/13, BD1 6/14 PA fall 14, BD2 2/15 Piecing 2015, BD3 12/15 Separated 4/16 WH moved OW in 5/16 Divorced 6/15/17
