Shes holding onto that WW behavior because in her heart that's the only thing that will make her happy and she will do anything to get it.
I think it was discussed in "For Newcomer LBH with a Wayward Wife by sandi2" thread listed by Cadet at the beginning of your thread. If you haven't read it yet now might be a good time.
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My buddy Fogg has some excellent points ^^^^^^^^^^
Have you read "For Newcomer LBH with a Wayward Wife by sandi2" at all? If you did, was it a while ago? If this is the case, please read it again.
Try to keep a PMA. Take things one step at a time.
Your friend,
Bob
Me:55 yrs/W:51 yrs (has MS) M:14 yrs T:15 yrs No children together--3 each from previous marriages Wife Moved Out: 10/19/14 Wife Filed for Divorce: 10/20/14 Divorce Final: 10/21/15