Thank you V, I'm trying to not overthink it and realize that I now have an appt with my W and an MC. I didn't have this yesterday. She told her cousin that I needed to call her to move things forward. I did and now we have this meeting.

Whatever she had to tell me or herself in order to agree to that meeting about closure, forgiveness, or anything else is secondary - she agreed to meet.

And whether we rehash my addiction history or talk about anything else is up to us. This is progress.

I'll ask my coach this week about recommendations for the meeting as far as how much of the M we talk about or R. She made it relatively clear that she doesn't want to dive back into our whole history, so I'll ask him about how to make amends without doing that.


M 39 W 36
T5 M3
BD - 1/15 Separated - Same Day
Served 9/15
D finalized 6/17