Then, I talked a little bit more with the kids. I began to say my goodbyes when STBX turned the phone towards her, started to get a little emotional, and said, "I really do love you. There's nothing I regret."
While I was out, STBX called and sent three TMs. I didn't answer or reply. The first TM was a video of the kids dancing. She sent the next TMs two hours later.
"I wish we could be ok." "I'm heartbroken."
While on my absolutely exhilarating hike, STBX sent me a TM.
W: Want to go see a movie with the kids and me? Me: (an hour later) Thanks for the invite. Can't make it today but have fun!
She is pursuing you. Either you did not fall apart and plead, the way she expected, or she's trying to have her foot in both worlds.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
