Hi Defacto, I'm sorry to hear that your W has filed for D. But I think you are handling things well. It sounds as though your W may have some conflict. However, I think you need to continue on your own path. She knows already this isn't what you want.

If she wants something to change, you won't miss it for sure. Just keep moving forward as if this is how your life is going to be. And if you choose to leave the door open a little ways - your W may or may not push it open further.

Good luck to you xx

T 13 M 7
Me 48 H 46
SS 15
BD 7.14 PA
D final 5.16 (H filed)

We receive & we lose, and must try to achieve gratitude & embrace with whole hearts whatever of life that remains after the losses - Dubus