I made the call just now and my W has agreed to sit down with me and an MC and have a conversation. I kept the call light but followed Wonka's basic script.
Unfortunately, she did tell me that she would be meeting with me only to get final closure for herself as she has forgiven me, forgiven herself, moved on, and is in a great place in her life now.
Not exactly what her cousin told me, and I didn't bring that up that I had talked to him as she mentioned all of the above early on in the call.
When I asked if we should meet at her IC's she replied that her IC was part of her new life and she didn't want to associate me with her at all now so we would have to find someone else. Kind of disheartening as well.
Looking at what's between the lines, I'm happy that we can sit down together with a professional, this is more than we've done since the first week she's left.
Wondering about the difference between what her cousin told me and what she relayed in the call is just mind reading and I'm going to be thankful that we can talk to someone.
Last edited by PigPen; 06/20/1506:44 PM.
M 39 W 36 T5 M3 BD - 1/15 Separated - Same Day Served 9/15 D finalized 6/17