I think every single person here is willing to take the blame for their contributions to the destruction of their respective marriages. Nobody is trying to claim their S just decided to leave without cause.
There is no benefit in focusing on the single straw that may have broken the camels back. Instead, focus on the overall issues.
Hello Last,
Matt is spot-on with this post from earlier today. Please, please for your sake don't think another moment about Mother's Day.
Now, on the other hand, I think you took a tough but huge step today by not pursuing your W. See, we all knew you'd get the hang of this. It takes time, my friend.
Way to go, Last, keep up the good work!
Chin up.
Bob
Thank you. The encouragement helps. It really does. I promise I am going to pay it forward. As soon as I am stable enough to believe what is coming out of my own mouth, I am going to start supporting other new arrivals here.
Right now reading their stories only serves to heighten my anxiety, so I have been avoiding them.
I think you have it in reverse - I believe posting on other threads helps you become more stable.
