Not sure about confusion other than about what he wants to do with regard to our M. There has been a lot of hot/could behavior, but more cold these days. As far as feelings go, he is not sharing with me. Mostly, just feel he has been abducted by aliens. While our marriage had issues, I don't understand how where all of this anger and hostility towards me has come from. He wouldnt call it anger and hostility though. It is literally like a switch was flipped with his personality, though he swears that is not the case. It has just been so extreme and not a gradual change from the day before BD to after.
We certainly have had a rough couple of years. I just keep going back through the years trying to see what he sees and I just can't reconcile the difference. But I understand that based on his emotional state that I won't be able to reconcile it. I just need to stop thinking about it and work on me.
It is just frustrating that after 14 years he won't talk to me, but yet is confiding in people he has known for 3-4 months. I certainly have become the enemy. Mostly, this happened after the A come to light.
Last edited by BW05; 06/20/1501:07 PM.
Me: 42 H: 40 M: 12 H moved out - 8/2015 I filed - 8/2015
