Things are going along in an ebb and flow as I suspect they will. We have met up for a couple walks to talk about things. I also was at her apartment for dinner and to work on daughters college stuff earlier this week. I have noticed now that she has a big smile when she first sees me now. That was not the case for a long time.
I believe that she is now reaching out to me for her emotional support. yesterday was a prime example of this. She sent me a text shortly after I arrived at work. She was getting all worked up over the cost of the girls college expenses. She texted that it was making her sick. I told her that she should not make her self sick over it. That if we talk it through and work together that things will work out.Then she texted about stress from worrying that the girls will make it through school. I told her this was normal. That the girls may hit some bumps along the way which is part of life and growing up. That we should not try and shield them from it.
Is it unusual for them to return for emotional support so quickly after the divorce is finalized? Should I be concerned?
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