Thanks everyone one, I am doing my best to navigate a very tension filled situation. I did not believe it would come to this as she has gotten what she wanted. But now she is content to start drama and argue with me over everything. I do not believe this is going in the right direction and it is clear something is guiding her actions. She called me a hypocrite today saying I'm doing thinks out of spite and spreading rumors. Both are not too, obviously. I am officially dumbfounded and not sure how this can become friendly again, without zero contact.
