I don't think we will ever really understand, and if we did would it really make a difference in the end. I understand that my H is going thru something, that I CANNOT help him thru. We can only stand on the side out of the way and watch.
Don't feed into what he is doing or saying or thinking or how he is living his life.
We have to live our lives the best way for us right now.
Hang in there, keep moving forward.
Me 43 ring off Oct 2014 (my ring back on Feb 2015) H 51 (ring off 7/2013) M 2007 T 1996 S 14 July 2013- H told me he was unhappy.....said he is staying for Son Feb 18 2014 Found out about OW