OK DB friends and vets, I need some advice. Serious advice.
I know that DB'ing is about principles not specifics and I know what I wrote above.
My W's cousin just called me back and said that he had just gotten off of a phone call with her.
In his words, "she's still grieving the loss of your M, she's grieving the loss of you, and wants you to (he told me this was a direct quote) 'man up and fight for me if he wants me back, I'm not going to reach out to him, if he wants this M he's going to have to call me and talk about it.'"
Sounds like it's time to change tactics.
Any thoughts?
M 39 W 36 T5 M3 BD - 1/15 Separated - Same Day Served 9/15 D finalized 6/17
