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I hope you enjoy your time with your daughters. I'm sure you'll find something fun to do with them.

I think you are being way too hard on yourself about not getting your W a Mother's Day gift. You just joined this forum recently, correct? When I asked the group if I should get my W a Mother's Day gift (she walked out on me 8 months ago) everyone said "No."

It's the same for any special occasion for a wayward spouse. No gifts. They might appreciate it, but most likely will view it as an attempt to try to win them back. Also, by not buying a gift, it's a little reminder of some of the things that she's giving up.

Make any sense?

Hang in there please!

Bob

The Mother's Day thing was before all this started. The last example of old me missing out on a chance to show love and appreciation.