I wouldn't worry about your h's feelings over you setting up your own savings account. He's not going to know unless you tell him and I don't think I would for a while, if ever. You have to protect yourself and your assets and trust me, if he's spinning hard, he'll begin to spend money like water.
Hello BW,
I'm so sorry, I keep meaning to catch up on your sitch, then mine "heated up" this AM.
Anyway, I think job's advice, especially the part I quoted is rock solid!
Hang in there...you can do this!
Bob
Me:55 yrs/W:51 yrs (has MS) M:14 yrs T:15 yrs No children together--3 each from previous marriages Wife Moved Out: 10/19/14 Wife Filed for Divorce: 10/20/14 Divorce Final: 10/21/15