Originally Posted By: job
I wouldn't worry about your h's feelings over you setting up your own savings account. He's not going to know unless you tell him and I don't think I would for a while, if ever. You have to protect yourself and your assets and trust me, if he's spinning hard, he'll begin to spend money like water.
Hello BW,

I'm so sorry, I keep meaning to catch up on your sitch, then mine "heated up" this AM.

Anyway, I think job's advice, especially the part I quoted is rock solid!

Hang in there...you can do this!

Bob


Me:55 yrs/W:51 yrs (has MS)
M:14 yrs
T:15 yrs
No children together--3 each from previous marriages
Wife Moved Out: 10/19/14
Wife Filed for Divorce: 10/20/14
Divorce Final: 10/21/15