NDY...I just caught up on your situation. The Fathers day thing is completely selfish and disrespectful, big time shout out to you for keeping a cool head, I think I would have lost it.

If you mention anything to her about not getting a D I would make sure to include something about TRYING to make it work, not sure if you even want to go that in depth though. I have mentioned to my W I don't know if we can make it work, but I am the one who is willing to TRY; she doesn't even want to do that. I just don't ever want to give my W the assumption she can just come back to me with no questions' asked.

Me: 32 Her: 29
M: 5 T: 11
D2
ILYBINILWY: Jan 15
BD: 2/13/15 (I found out, she didn't tell me)
W filed for D after I confronted OM 5-27-15
Papers served 6-3-15
Temporary Order 7-15-15
W Moved out 7-17-15