H reached out to my sisters. Apparently he's going on a 2 weeks bike tour of the East Coast and wants to stop in and say hi (Ct and Boston) and 'crash' for the night.
He implied to my BIL that he had a trip planned out west that was cancelled, OW said not to come back until he's divorce. I find it very strange that he would want to spend time with my sisters and their families with everything going on. They don't know how to handle it!
I also filed for divorce this week in order to prevent him from filing in the state where he works and now lives. He was talking about refiling as soon as we reached our year mark of living separate and apart. So even in my sadness and his madness, I've gained a little bit of control. Will see how he seems after his 'pilgrimage'. I will most likely serve him shortly after that.


M: 53 H:53 M: 30 years
D:29, D 27, D 25
BD: 6/2/14
Proof of OW 7/7/14
D filed 8/14 (H)
D dropped 1/15 (H)
3/15 H reaching out
06/01/15 Proof of OW still
06/17/15 I filed