I need advice quick...please help

[Elly4]

Hi Teach, I didn't see you started a new thread. Just found it today. I was wondering why you were so quiet.
Here's my response to you from my thread this morning. I am so sorry you are having a rough time!

I'm so sorry, Teach. I've been checking your thread daily as I was wondering what was happening for you. We really can't have expectations of our WAS as they are so screwed up right now.

Have you read Cadet's link to you on setting boundaries? It seems like you need to set some with your H. You are not deserving of this kind of behavior.

On the flip side, the best way to not let him get to you is for you to GAL. It is hard to do, I know, but you need to focus on you and your S. It will help with the hurt and confusion, help you to be more confident and knowledgeable about yourself, and the totally confuse your H. He's expecting you to react to his lukewarm offer to move back in and you need to stay cool and detached. Don't react to him as it's what's he's looking for.

I'll check back in with you later and am sending you lots of prayers.

hugs

E