just dropping by to say hello. seems like things are going well with bf so thats great news, just a bit of due caution to any red flags and you'll be fine.
Have fun
Both mid 30s, 2 young kids BD 7sep14 XW moved on long ago, now living with OM1 D paperwork in progress
I have thought revenge thoughts like every one here and played the what ifs a million times.
Hello Gg,
Well, I have to respectfully disagree - Ha! I think you are extraordinary.
Keep on being yourself!
Bob
Me:55 yrs/W:51 yrs (has MS) M:14 yrs T:15 yrs No children together--3 each from previous marriages Wife Moved Out: 10/19/14 Wife Filed for Divorce: 10/20/14 Divorce Final: 10/21/15
Well I posted on the thread yesterday I'm pretty sure unless it a got eaten or b I was norty and I got erased...
Things are good, it's just a huge fast attraction that's leaving me feeling a bit like whoohaaa... But in most stuff there seems to be boundary respect and I haven't needed to tell bf how act like a grown up. In some things he insists in take his share and it's been nice to be semi "normal"
Doing normal things, just going out to shop used to be a production with xh2, now we just go. He takes his share of cooking and is taking some of the heavy stuff over. He seems to be able to know what a grown up is, without me having to tell him what's ok.
I think it's just time to confront what's actually happening, the action is different to the story I tell my self. I need to make room in my cupboards but bf hasn't pushed....
Somehow he is just content to go with the the flow, for the time being. Which is nice, not being told like xh2, this is how it will be.
Everything's still intensely x rated, but bf has gotten work and so that's helped me feel less like I need to push the issue. I was feeling anxious about the fact work wasn't looking positive.
So yes nilla life is good Just cruising.
M 46 h54 Both married before T 11y Bd 2/14 I must see where ow leads! Ms 18 hs 26
I have thought revenge thoughts like every one here and played the what ifs a million times.
I think you are extraordinary.
Bob
This I hear all the time now....... Seems there's been progress on the job front!
Hi Gg,
Good, I hope it works out. Keep on cruising!
Bob
Me:55 yrs/W:51 yrs (has MS) M:14 yrs T:15 yrs No children together--3 each from previous marriages Wife Moved Out: 10/19/14 Wife Filed for Divorce: 10/20/14 Divorce Final: 10/21/15
