Ok guys, I'm making food before I head out. So back to the original topic now that the schedule with S9 is sorted. WW posed this question
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Can I ask you a question though? What so you think is the alternative to separation and/or divorce? This is not meant to be a confrontational question. I am interested in understanding what you think is a workable alternative so I have a better understanding of your thoughts on this. I am hoping you will get back to me to give me more insight because it is this particular area that I feel I don’t understand your stance or the future that you envisage.
She's pressed now a couple of times for an answer and so far I've evaded it. No hurry on this one.
And, I like GB's direct approach although I believe my situation is too mature for what is he says (no offence GB, please stick with me), and I like wonka's word smithing. And one last DB principle, moving on. So with that in mind here is what I have so far.
W
Right now i'd like to think about the here and now and not talk about the future. There is only one alternative to getting a D and that is to not get a D.
If somewhere at the back of your mind you are having second thoughts then we should talk before this goes too far.
If on the other hand you want to continue down this path where there are no winners, only losers then I have far too many important things going on in my life to waste any more energy on these types of conversations.
Could do with some work but as a skeleton it's a start. Thoughts?
Last edited by NDY; 06/19/1506:54 PM.
Me:43 Her:42 M:14 S:9 EA started 2014/03 (or there abouts) PA started 2014/05/30 BD:2014/11/05 I left 2015/10/01 I returned 2015/05/02 She left 2015/06/10 OM still on the go.
