Thing is .. the past is the past. And with a WAS its not always good to 'pretend' on holidays and birthdays ... "Oh here is a nice gift lets just act like you are not cheating on me". Whats done is done and you can not change the past .. none of us can, had we done everything perfect none of us would be at this forum .... and a little hint .. you will screw up later too ... we all backslide .. but we learn.
As far as Fathers-day ... DO SOMETHING with your girls .. do not sit around and hope W will stop cheating long enough to think about you ... take the girls out to pizza, putt putt .. whatever .. have fun .. if W wants to be a part of it cool .. if not .. cool. You have to start adopting a new attitude and take charge of these things.
