Yeah the book is really good. It refers to alcoholics making you codependent but I just ignore it and sub in MLC! lol.
I think living with an MLC can make you codependent. I am separated but the whole thing I think has made me codependent. When I read the book I think I became a little codependent through out the marriage and I now see there are some things that I just don't want to deal with anymore or have to think I have to worry about in any R that I may have in the future with H.
