Yip, and that is why my S9 will learn that his dad did not want this and tried his best to stop it from happening. Staying the course is the hard thing in a M. It's not easy and the WW need to understand that. It's easy to walk away though. That's the cowards route if you ask me.
You nailed it. My W has even said when my D2 starts asking questions we should sit down and decide what we are going to tell her. I told her I was going to tell her I didn't want this and I did everything I could. I'm not going to lie for you. Now, I know I just can't trash my W in front of my D2 but she wants it to be the stereotypical "oh we just grew apart" FALSE, I will NOT say that.
And it absolutely is the coward's route. I'm a humble guy but I easily fixate on the lack of character my W has shown in this situation, I have to stop and remind myself of what I have done in this situation. I can stand proud and truly look at myself in the mirror and know I did what was right, I didn't take the easy way out, even though this journey isn't over I KNOW I will continue to be proud of what I did or didn't do. I'm sure our W's HATE that we aren't stooping to their level and we aren't taking their bait. Actions speak louder than words and I won't let her hateful, disrespectful, spiteful words affect how I act as a man and father.
We have to be the lighthouse. Oooooooo its tough sometimes though.
Me: 32 Her: 29 M: 5 T: 11 D2 ILYBINILWY: Jan 15 BD: 2/13/15 (I found out, she didn't tell me) W filed for D after I confronted OM 5-27-15 Papers served 6-3-15 Temporary Order 7-15-15 W Moved out 7-17-15
