Can it be another round?

[ForeverYoung]

Thanks, FY. I don’t know what kind of hope I have. I think I want H to realize that our M was completely recoverable and that what we had was the best he could ever have.

Likely your marriage was the "best he could ever have"... and he may figure this out some day... or not.

I’m just a hopeless dreamer…

Nothing wrong with that as long as you are enjoying every day, regardless of his actions/inactions.

I wish I could report more movement in my sitch, but this is all I have. Received text from H today that he transferred money to my account and thanking me once again for making his check deposit for him. End of story…

I sense you are tiring of the situation. Who wouldn't? Maybe it's time to try something new. Radically new even. You CAN force change in the status quo. That's what I kinda did.

But you have to be ready.