Yeah. Counsellor suggested that was a way of letting her 'hear' me whilst she wasn't talking to me.
NO NO NO NO NO and one more time NO. Pursuing. When is your book arriving? That will just turn her off even more (if that's possible). I know that sounds strange coming from me given what's going on in my sitch and the vets may well slap me down for saying that but I don't think that's right.
I'm even less of s vet, but this sounds like a terrible idea. There is no way W is going to think for a SECOND this isn't your idea.