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I hope you enjoy your time with your daughters. I'm sure you'll find something fun to do with them.

I think you are being way too hard on yourself about not getting your W a Mother's Day gift. You just joined this forum recently, correct? When I asked the group if I should get my W a Mother's Day gift (she walked out on me 8 months ago) everyone said "No."

It's the same for any special occasion for a wayward spouse. No gifts. They might appreciate it, but most likely will view it as an attempt to try to win them back. Also, by not buying a gift, it's a little reminder of some of the things that she's giving up.

Make any sense?

Hang in there please!

Bob


Me:55 yrs/W:51 yrs (has MS)
M:14 yrs
T:15 yrs
No children together--3 each from previous marriages
Wife Moved Out: 10/19/14
Wife Filed for Divorce: 10/20/14
Divorce Final: 10/21/15