Hey skhdive. Just checking on your sitch. I think I will read that book about codependency.
This is such a hard journey. My H gave me a ray of hope this week and I ran full speed ahead, which was so stupid. DON"T believe what he says...DON"T believe what he says. I have read that 100 times yet I fell hook line and sinker.
Getting back to just doing me now. Just like you said-don't let their actions control your day!