I was wondering how you are today and then...poof!...I see you added a post.
It takes a real man to look at himself objectively and admit his mistakes and/or faults. You are a good man!
Do you have any Father's Day plans? Sorry, if you posted them already, I don't recall.
Bob
Father's day will be spent with my 2 girls. W will be here too probably for most of it.
I have no real plans but to spend time with my girls. I have no expectations from W. This is for good reason. This year I was lazy and thoughtless on Mother's day. I got her a box of candy and had the girls make her a card. I got her nothing. Nothing for the first time ever. I rationalized it at the time. "It's really the kids day". She is their mother and they got her something. SO STUPID.
Anyway, that was 5/10. On 5/11 she was chatting online. Not excusing the behavior, but I probably really hurt her with that failure to acknowledge her and show love.
Me: 39 W: 38 T-18yrs M-13yrs 2 Girls: 10 & 3 EA BD 5/24/15 Separate Bedrooms 6/12/15 PA BD 7/3/15 Separate Residence 8/8/15