LOL that's the first laugh I have had all day. You don't know how much your experience helps me.
Your so right about him not wanting the same marriage. I just have to slow way down and get back to me.
Just for full disclosure, I've only been here since 4/20 and my W has made no indication of anything but full on divorce still. So I'm not sure I have ANY experience in this.
But you DID get him to turn around. So why stop doing what you were doing?? If it works, keep going! You saw what happened when you tried to put pressure on it. So in my opinion, the path forward is clear. Don't work harder; work smarter --- do the things that get results.
