You can't just jump back in to where you were. Why would he come back to the same M you had before?

Just like you've been changing over the last month, your R needs time to change too. So take it slow, don't try to rush anything.

Imagine he's s squirrel trying to eat out of your hand. No sudden movements...

At BD - Me: 33 Her: 33; M: 10 T: 15; D: 6 and 3

BD: 3/25/15
S: 4/20/15
D: 11/9/15