We are meeting to discuss our next steps, which could go down one of two roads:
1.) More explanation of why she feels and needs to be separated.
2.) How the divorce will proceed.
Considering her WAS frame of mind it's more than likely going to be road number 2 (or maybe a little of both). So I have a list of items to discuss our S finances, assets, liabilities, etc.
There is no set agenda it was just a way of concluding our week of NC and discuss how to proceed with our R.
Dale Carnegie has a book I'd recommend... "How stop worrying and start living"
Number one thing he recommends... is to consider what the worst is that can happen and accept it.
If there's a topic that comes up in the discussion, that you're either not prepared to discuss or haven't thought through, then don't. Just state you'll consider it and let her know. DO NOT let her push you into something. Think through how you want things to happen for your son's sake and yourself.
For me, my priorities when considering how things will proceed... they were my son, me, and then her as a distant third.
At the moment, I have a strong possibility of having primary physical custody of our son and I live in Michigan too. Be smart, talk with a good lawyer. Depending on where you live, I could recommend mine. Otherwise, do you homework. Find one that fights for the men.
Me: 45 W43 S7, Foster S9 (Planning to adopt post divorce) D mentioned Feb 2015, Wife served 3/24/2015. She moved out 4/15/2015.
