I have seen others here just tire of the crazy and file for their own sanity ... maybe they needed that to detach and move on .. I never did .. I detached and moved on without it ... hoping maybe one day she would see me for the amazing person I am and the OM for the douchbag he is, but more importantly for her to be alone, and really figure out what she wants out of life. I was one who felt the A was the obstacle ... turns out it was never about the A ... its about the WAS and them working through the stuff that set them into crisis in the first place .. .the tragic part is all the destruction in the aftermath.
Heavy,
Wow, CaliGuy is spot on! Great post, CaliGuy.
We're all rooting for you, Heavy.
Bob
Me:55 yrs/W:51 yrs (has MS) M:14 yrs T:15 yrs No children together--3 each from previous marriages Wife Moved Out: 10/19/14 Wife Filed for Divorce: 10/20/14 Divorce Final: 10/21/15