seems like you are doing ok and i suspect its a good thing you are pulling away a little more from your W. There is something going on there and to be honest its not something anything you do will influence much.
the holiday in spain sounds like a really good plan (my recent holiday was well worth it).
I (unsurprisingly) agree with Toots regarding OM and it seem lie you recognise it as an issue. Do you have any kind of strategy for dealing with it?
Anyways im pleased you're ok
Take care
Both mid 30s, 2 young kids BD 7sep14 XW moved on long ago, now living with OM1 D paperwork in progress