That lady singing - is she fat?

[NDY]

Hey dude

So why does it hurt so much that she is telling me "NEVER EVER AGAIN"? It hurts because I love her, I never meant to hurt her, and I want to make it up to her. I want the family back. But I dont want to go back to what we had, and the biggest part of that was that I didn't feel wanted/desired/loved. W hasn't said as much (yet), but maybe it was simply the case that she didn't feel "that" way about me. I have given her plenty of opportunity and she hasn't denied it either. It seems even more remote in this case.

Yea, I get this. But I've had so many 4 X 2's over the last few days my head is spinning. Simple answer. You, just like me have expectations on her actions.

Hard as it was I have learned to let it go. I've been lucky. I have a couple of vets helping me and yes, they are not shy of telling you how it is. And that's a good thing.

So this is the mountain we both have to climb. She doesn't 'not care', she just doesn't love you right now. I'm here in the same position. Whattya gonna do?

I know.

Stand up and fight. But for yourself. We will not allow this to be the defining moments of our lives.