Answer a question with a question and start a conversation.
It'll save you a lot of time trying to come up with the perfect response because she will probably clarify that she's not seeking a discussion about anything other than trying to nail down and then mock and criticize your [misinterpreted] idea of staying married somehow, living together and perhaps, dating others?????
Then again, maybe she comes back saying she is actually having some second thoughts about all this and trying to actually take your temperature. In that case, you want HER talking and expressing her thoughts and feelings to you (her pursuing you) versus you giving her a letter/email over sharing, being mean and/or pyscho-babbling.
Maybe "I think I've been pretty clear about my position. I don't want a divorce. Divorce is injurious to our S9 so I remain willing to try to work things out and rebuild an terrific marriage. End your affair and come home. What did you think I meant?'
Hey, thanks because that's what I was thinking. Simple and to the point. It doesn't need anything more. But, I think we need to temper back just a bit. My thinking here is that we need t start small. Any thought of a successful M is right out of her depth right now but the message also needs to be clear. Am I making sense? Wonka's email is the first time ever that got a response from her that didn't shut her down. Going from A to Z in one swoop will scare her off I think. Not sure.
Me:43 Her:42 M:14 S:9 EA started 2014/03 (or there abouts) PA started 2014/05/30 BD:2014/11/05 I left 2015/10/01 I returned 2015/05/02 She left 2015/06/10 OM still on the go.
