Jim, I'm sorry to hear about this weekend - that's hard. And tough that it all happens when you are without the kids for a week and it is Father's Day too. This is where I wish I could give you a call and take you off down to the pub for a drink and a good old chat...Hopefully you'll come up with a nice little plan for the weekend, despite the circumstances.

As you say, things may be on an 'up' phase with your W and OM just now. But it wasn't long ago that she was seeking to date - so my guess is things may be quite fragile.

It's good that your W is more open I think. A fragile trust perhaps. But that may be something to build on. Thanks for posting on my thread, and for your question - it's much appreciated. Can I ask the same question back? How do you feel about it??

Take care Jim - and keep posting (((Jim)))

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We receive & we lose, and must try to achieve gratitude & embrace with whole hearts whatever of life that remains after the losses - Dubus