My thoughts:

- hope for the best, but expect the worst.

- read the validation cheat sheet. Several times. Use it. Liberally.

- let her talk. STFU as much as you can. Validate.

- if it comes up, state that you don't want to D. Then don't bring it up again.

- dress one level up. New shirt or shoes if possible.

- no physical contact unless she initiates.

- don't try to hang on at the end of the meeting. Go to leave first. Don't say clearly why.



Anyone else?

At BD - Me: 33 Her: 33; M: 10 T: 15; D: 6 and 3

BD: 3/25/15
S: 4/20/15
D: 11/9/15