And yeah .. I am not so stoned I would even think for a second this weekend is the cure-all end all ... and just as you have said .. I am honestly going in as a blank slate hoping to learn and take something out of it and is it funny I have to remind myself W will be there? I know the thing is set up for 'saving marriages' but I am not putting that sort of weight on it to be honest ... more as just a seminar where best case I learn how to communicate better.
That is a good solid point about W not being in the same place, I know that's the case but I can also see how while there it might be easy to get wrapped up in it all and forget my W is still a bit groggy from the MLC bender she has been on the past few years
uR I really appreciate your views and how you can gently smack me
job as always your expereince and insight has been invaluable
