And this^^^ is pretty much what my L is going to say to her L. Legally I can't stop 50/50 but you are right in what you say. So on that one I'll leave it to my hard earned cash to negotiate since my L agrees with you.

Wanna know what suks? The money I handed over to the L today. I was thinking how good a B day I could have given S9 with that money. Ah well...

Me:43 Her:42
M:14
S:9
EA started 2014/03 (or there abouts)
PA started 2014/05/30
BD:2014/11/05
I left 2015/10/01
I returned 2015/05/02
She left 2015/06/10
OM still on the go.