Job, it's complicated . . . . Maybe I don't need to go. They met up once without me earlier this year, and both wanted me to go along to another meeting . . . . I am thinking about this one.

They are very alike, and I think the estrangement is hard for both of them. But it might just be their problem!

If I am honest I think it is an excuse on my xh's part to see me. And my son loves us both.

I realise I am making him sound a bit strange . . ..